I bet it's hearts all over the world tonight.
Okay. Let's say there's this couple. The girl is financially stable, doing alright in her studies and has a great relationship with her family and friends. The guy is struggling with Uni, is mostly broke and hasn't talked to his parents in three months.
Now, my dear readers, how many of you know people in this situation who support their boyfriends financially?
How many of you question whether what they're doing is right or wrong?
I honestly know more people who go or have gone through this than I can count on one hand.
Can you really go on with your life obliviously when you see your partner struggling with theirs? It's probably easier to fathom guys supporting girls because its more acceptable in society but when girls do it for their men then people have a lopsided view about it. Egos will definitely be challenged but the girls can't help it. Love, they call it.
Some people think paying off someone is the easiest way to love. They say that buying stuff for their partners don't mean much. Bullshit.
As if spending money for your boy doesn't come with sacrifices. Just imagine having to decline your weekly 'Girls Night Out' with your girlfriends because you've spent your money on his groceries. You have to give your brother his birthday present 4 months late because your bf used it to pay his phone bill or traffic summons. You secretly withdraw money from your 'other' savings account just so he can pay the deposit for his apartment. Yeah, the one you were hoping to keep to send your parents on a surprise cruise on their 25th anniversary.
Not such a walk in the park now ain't it?
Wait, I can't remember where I'm going with this. Hahaha. It was just something I was mulling over in the shower. Well, it's better than thinking about..mm..nevermind...:)
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